Saturday, September 7, 2013

Time-Out


Ever watch White Wolves? For those of you that haven't had the privilege, a group of teens and their leader go on a backpacking trip, very much like the wilderness trip, with less canoeing. Their goal is to get to the top of Eagle Rock. They eventually make it to the top and disaster strikes! Their trip turns into a rescue mission and they go through struggle after struggle on the way. At one point, after yet another plan doesn’t work out as anticipated, Kara gets overwhelmed and yells out, “No, I can’t do this anymore, I wanna go home!”

Do you ever feel that way? Things get frustrating or scary or hard and you’d rather give up than keep going?


To set the stage before we read our passage for today, you need some background info. The passage talks about that Ark of the Covenant which was like a treasure chest that the Israelites had constructed—according to very specific guidelines God had given them. It held “the gold jar of manna, Aaron’s staff that had budded, and the stone tablets of the covenant” (Heb 9:4). Most importantly, it was what God used as a seat; His presence was considered to be with the Ark.
Now, the Philistines had captured the Ark (1 Sam. 4), but it brought destruction upon them (1 Sam. 5) so they returned it (1 Sam. 6). But it’s now been in Kiriath-Jearim (aka Baalah of Judah), which was a town right on the border of Israel, for about 20 years. David becomes king and wants to bring the Ark under his care, to his town.

Read 2 Samuel 6:1-5. People are excited, they’re bringing the Ark of the Covenant back to its home. And it’s a pretty big deal too… 30,000 troops parading it home with huge fanfare!

Read 2 Samuel 6:6-7. Um, what? Seems like Uzzah was doing the smart thing (not letting the Ark of the Covenant fall on the ground and get all dirty). If something starts to fall, I would be trying to stop it from hitting the ground too, so why’d God get so angry?

Read 2 Samuel 6:8. David’s angry and I can’t say I blame him. Here he is, trying to do the right thing (bring the Ark back to where it belongs) and God overreacts to it almost falling.. or it being saved from falling. What do you think David’s gonna do next? What would YOU do?

Read 2 Samuel 6:9-10. Yea, you catch that? David got angry and scared, so he quit. He just left the Ark at some guy’s house (or threshing floor) and went home. He decided, “No, I can’t do this anymore, I wanna go home!”
My guess is he probably went home with his head hung low because he had failed on his goal to retrieve the Ark of the Covenant. God did things he didn’t understand, so David went home and left things unfinished. He quit.

Sometimes quitting is a good thing (like people who quit smoking or quit biting their nails), but quitting can also be a bad thing (like when you stop playing an awesome game (Monopoly) halfway through instead of finishing).
There are plenty of bad habits that should be quit, but that’s not what we’re talking about here. When life gets difficult, when you’re scared or frustrated or confused, don’t give up. These are times when God is doing something and wants to teach us through it and we need to continue on.

Have you ever quit something—a hobby, a sports team, a musical instrument, a grade? How’d it make you feel?


Do you give up easily or try to work through things?


Romans 12:12 says “Rejoice in hope; be patient in affliction; be persistent in prayer.” How does this apply to what we’re talking about?



This story doesn’t end there though. Let’s see what happens after David quit. Read 2 Samuel 6:11-15. David got over his fear and decided once again to bring back the Ark of the Covenant. What’s different this time? Sometimes you need to walk away—you might be in a bad place mentally or spiritually and just need a break, a chance to think through things and then come back. I think this is where David was at. Things were not working out the way the way David thought they should, so he calls a Time-Out for three months.
But David wasn’t twiddling his thumbs for those three months. The text doesn’t say what he did during those three months, but I think he spent lots of time with God, praying and working on his relationship with Him. David left scared of what God was going to do and then was celebrating the Lord three months later-something had obviously changed.
David also did something else during those three months—research.
How was the Ark of the Covenant moved in verse 3? ______________________
How was the Ark of the Covenant moved in verse 13? ______________________
Why the change? David went back and read the Law and found out the proper way to move the Ark. There were gold rings on the corners that were to get poles through them so it could be carried without being touched and the Levites were the only ones who should be doing the transporting. These were things David had ignored the first time around.

To live an unleashed life, we can’t be quitters. When life gets hard or confusing, we can’t bail on God. However, sometimes when things get overwhelming, we may need to do like David did and call a Time-Out and pray, restore our relationship with God, and get in the Word to figure out our next step.

When you feel like quitting, what are some things you can do to take a Time-Out and try again?


How does this idea of taking a Time-Out relate to what we’ve been doing this week?


How can you make this practical once you get home?

Matthew 11:28-30 "Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. All of you, take up My yoke and learn from Me, because I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for yourselves. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."


Oh and this story still isn’t over. Read 2 Samuel 6:16-23, keeping in mind that Michal is one of David’s wives.

David is clearly excited about the Ark’s return and is dancing down the street like a fool. His wife is a bit of a killjoy and tells him how much of a fool he is. David lets her know that when it comes to praising and worshiping God, he’s happy to look like a fool to others cause God is the only one who matters.
Do you know the David Crowder song, Undignified? It is based on David’s response to Michal in this passage. As we live unleashed lives, we should be so focused on God and worshiping Him that we shouldn’t care what others think.

A few years ago, my mom was a youth leader and came to youth group with her hair dyed blue and spiked. Why? Because one of the teens asked/dared her to… My grandmother (among many others I’m sure) thought it was crazy that she’d do something like that. My mom was willing to be undignified and look a little foolish with spiky blue hair to encourage this teen. She wanted this teen to see the love of Christ through her and if that meant looking foolish, so be it.

Do you feel free to worship God how you want or do you fear looking foolish?


What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to serve the Lord?


How is this relevant this week?


How can you make this practical once you get home?



David replied to Michal, "I was dancing before the Lord… I will celebrate before the Lord, and I will humble myself even more and humiliate myself.” (2 Sam 6:21-22a)
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For youth group, I wrote a few of the devotionals we put in a booklet for the teens. The second trip we did was a Missions Trip to New York where we did some Street Evangelism in NYC and some work projects in Upstate NY. Prior to this trip we read Unleash by Perry Noble and focused on that and the life of David.

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